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About Cavender Castle & The Owners - The Durham Family

Meet Cavender Castle Owners - Rick, Cyndi, & Delaney Durham

Cavender Castle… Where you can have a Royal Wedding that’s not a Royal Pain!  

     We know you are busy… Career, family, and maybe kids.   And now you need to plan a wedding.  This means finding time to research and visit venues, secure a wedding date, find a dress, plan a honeymoon, hire your wedding vendors… the list seems to go on and on and on!  Then you have to figure out how to pay for everything.  Yikes!
Shouldn’t getting married be more fun?
Well relax… You are in good hands at Cavender Castle.
     We believe every couple deserves a stress-free wedding that is fun, affordable and memorable.  We are Rick, Cyndi & Delaney Durham, owners of Cavender Castle.   As a family business we have old fashioned values.  Things like working hard and doing what you say you will do are important.  
     We go our of our way to treat every couple, and their guests like family.   Our preferred wedding professionals are the same people we will hire for our own son and daughter when they decide to get married.
     From your first contact with us, all the way through your wedding day you will be working directly with the owners.  The Durhams personally answer your phone calls, respond to your emails, provide tours and consultations along with  working directly with you to plan all of the important details.
      And then on your wedding day the Durhams are the first people to arrive, and the last people to leave.  Rick, Cyndi and Delaney personally work every event to flawlessly not just deliver, but over-deliver on the details planned for your special day.  Our first objective is to let you feel like an honored guest at your own party.  Our second is to have your family and friends say “That was the best wedding ever!”
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Meet Cyndi Nichols Durham: 

Cyndi Durham owner of Cavender Castle a North Georgia Wedding Venue

Cavender Castle Co-Owner Cyndi Durham


     Cyndi Durham is a self admitted “Wedding Addict”.   She eats, breathes and lives for weddings.  Even when she is away from her Cavender Castle venue she scours the internet for trends and ideas that can help her brides.  In her off time you will find her watching wedding shows on TV.  Sometimes she even dreams about weddings!

     Cyndi has been planing weddings since 2003.  Over that time she has planned and coordinated almost 1000 weddings at Cavender Castle and at other venues all around the south.  In high school and college she directed her Mom’s day care center.  After marrying Rick in 1984, she founded and operated her own chain dance and gymnastics studios with a focus on pre-schoolers.  

     All of the experience with kids makes Miss Cyndi an expert at making sure that children have a great wedding experience.  Cyndi makes sure that Cavender Castle is the most kid-friendly wedding venue in Georgia, if not the entire USA.

     Cyndi is also an excellent photographer.  Her eye for details and fun-friendly personality enable her to get fantastic wedding poses (even from those who hate to have their picture taken).   For our Elopements and Intimate Weddings she usually photographs the wedding while husband Rick officiates.

     Cyndi personally manages all of our Mid-Life Couples (over age 40).  Being in her mid-fifties herself she has found that Mid-Life couples tend to relate better to wedding planners who have similar life experiences. Younger couples are given the choice of having Cyndi plan their event, or having Cyndi’s daughter Delaney handle the lead.  

     But even if the couple elects to have Delaney plan their event, Cyndi is never far away.   And it is not unusual for Cyndi to act as the “surrogate mom” for young couples whose families live far away and cannot be part of the planning process.   

 Meet Rev. Rick Durham!
Rev Rick Durham owner of Cavender Castle one of the longest running wedding venues in North Georgia

Cavender Castle Co-Owner Rev. Rick Durham

     Rev. Rick Durham a student and innovator when it comes to weddings and the wedding business.  

     Prior to getting into the wedding business with his wife, Cyndi he spent 25 years in corporate America in a variety of sales, marketing, and product management positions.    Prior to retiring from that life he managed a $25 Million global food ingredient business.  In this role he traveled around the world sampling the tastes and flavor sensations favored by other cultures.  Today, Rick manages our Culinary Team in bringing outstanding food and beverage experiences to you and your guests.

     Once Rick retired from the corporate world he jumped into the family wedding business with both feet.  As a trained public speaker he was appalled by unprofessional approach used by many of the wedding officiants who worked events at Cavender Castle.   He cringed whenever he witnessed an awful speaker who mumbled or just recited from a written script.  So in 2010 he became an ordained minister with the purpose of improving upon wedding ceremonies.  

     Since then Rick has become the busiest wedding officiant in Georgia performing over 200 weddings a year. He designed on Online Ceremony Builder that give his couples complete control over the style, wording, and theme of their ceremony.  His couples love not being surprised on their wedding day!   And best of all Rick has the ability to mirror the personality of his couples with presentations that range from “lighthearted and joyful” to “traditional and solemn”

     He even has his own website dedicated to his Minister/Officiant Services:


    Rev Rick is also a member of the International Association Of Professional Wedding Officiants

 Meet Delaney Durham:
 Photo of Delaney Durham owner of Cavender Castle wedding  venue 
     Delaney has grown up in the wedding business!
     She has been helping Mom and Dad at Cavender Castle for as long as she can remember.   As a little girl she spent many mornings helping her mom decorate for weddings.
      Affectionately nicknamed “Lu Lu” by her Dad, she heads up our company’s social media and handles all of our photo editing duties.  She is also our Lead Wedding Decorator and Coordinates weddings for many of our younger couples.  
     Plus, her youthful outlook keeps our company current and on top of all the latest wedding trends!
Meet Pearly Baker – Hospitality Director
Pearl heads up our welcoming committee!

Pearl heads up our welcoming committee!

     Cavender Castle is Pet  Friendly!  Over the years we have incorporated many, many dogs and other pets into our wedding ceremonies.

     Meet Pearl, a seven year old rescue with probable Corgi bloodlines. She is also Rev. Rick’s closest adviser and constant companion!

     Pearl is the leader of our Cavender Castle Welcoming Committee.   She manages the younger members of pack, Jed and Diamond (both are also rescues).  For those of you who are dog lovers you will probably have Pearl, Jed, and Diamond meet you at the front door and welcome you to The Castle.  

     If you have a canine of your own, Pearl invites you to bring your four legged companion to The Castle.  We even have a world class 800 sq ft kennel that is perfect for all the dogs to run and play while the humans are doing their thing.  

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Cavender Castle Owners:  Cyndi Durham, Delaney Durham and Rick Durham (L to R)

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